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heatherohmy asked on 3/9/2010 5:52:49 PM Report this post
Better yet I should say always the tryer never the pregers.

I found out yet another one of my friends is pregnant yesterday! I was initially happy for her and still am however I'm also feeling a little resentment.
She doesn't know that hubby and I are TTC and I know she would never do anything to intentionally hurt me but it's so hard to be happy for everyone!
I now have five, yes five, friends that are pregnant!
Two due this month, two due in April and now she just found out she is pregnant.
I'm beginning to thing it is NEVER going to happen, we have been TTC since Oct. 07!

Sorry I just needed to vent!
Many blessings to everyone!
Heather

Moriah0226 said on 3/9/2010 11:38:44 PM Report this post
Heather, I know exactly where you are coming from. I just want to punch a wall everytime a friend tells me that they are preggers. I truely believe that you will get your time. I also believe that you will get your time when everyone can go gaga over you cause you will be the only one preggers at the time. GOD is just waiting so you can get the most attention.

Sending loads of BABY DUST YOUR WAY!!

Cinnamon said on 3/10/2010 1:13:01 PM Report this post
So sorry about that. Just vent to us! I hope you're feeling better about it soon!

heatherohmy said on 3/11/2010 10:40:00 AM Report this post
Thanks ladies!
I know that when God believes it is my time he will bless me with the child that I so dearly want, however, I'm growing rather impaitent!!! I'm sure you all know the feeling!

I talked to her today and come to find out they had been TTC since Nov. 07, which means they started just one month after we did so that makes me feel a little better and restores a little more hope for me!

Thank you ladies for letting me rant and being so supportive!

Many Blessings to everyone!
Heather

Mara04 said on 3/13/2010 2:50:28 PM Report this post
Look at it this way Heather, would you really want to be just one of the pack right now? I'd rather be the ONLY one I knew pregnant and have all the focus on me! I hated being pregnant at the same time as my SIL, it was awful. I know it feels like a shot in your face. Give the provera some time to work it out and then maybe you will get your BFP after all the oether hav had theirs!

colldoll said on 3/20/2010 7:40:07 AM Report this post
Heather, it seems as though your pretty spiritual.... Start praying for the ones you resent. Just include them in your prayers at night... Regardless to whether you mean it or not. When i resent someone i say, "God Bless (their name) and Help me.... It always seems to work. Just try it....

heatherohmy said on 3/21/2010 1:00:46 AM Report this post
Thanks Ladies!
Mara- yeah I get what your saying, it's just hard to see it happening to so many people for the second and third time and I haven't even had my first time!

Colldoll- Yeah I try and stay in touch with my spirtiual side. I'm pretty much over the resentment now I just had to let it sink in. It is just very frusturing to have been trying since Oct. 07 and still nothing.

However if the Provera did work to get my cycle back on track I should be expect AF the 21-22 so we will be what happens!

Leighcm said on 3/22/2010 11:46:14 AM Report this post
I totally hear you. Just found out my sister in law is preggers and my other sister in law is due any second now!!! Ahhh..when will it be my turn. I have actually told my close friend to tell me in an e-mail so I can process the info in private, I can be happy for them later without them seeing the dissappointment on my face.

MRSAGQ said on 3/24/2010 10:25:24 AM Report this post
heatherohmy, we have also been ttc since oct 2007, when we got married. we have no health ins, so i haven't been able to get any fert treatments. i have no way of knowing what is standing in our way, or what might be wrong. i feel that it must be me b/c hubby already has a perfectly healthy 7 yr old son. each month i am jst wishing for a miracle. just recently have i been feeling that "i am ready for a baby" instead of just "i want a baby so bad i can't stand it." so i'm hopin our little bundle isn't too far away. keep smilin, keep lovin!

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